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Thu., May 8, 2008 - 9:52AM

Listen up, kids. This is your mother, speaking.

That big day is tomorrow and I've got a hint or two as to what I'd like... >>MORE

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Whether you are a new mom or a veteran of diapers, feedings, whys, tantrums and hugs, this is the space for writers and readers to share experiences, lessons and laughs.
Wed., Apr 30, 2008 - 10:17AM

I'm in love.

And it's about as rational as Tom Cruise's sofa-jumping love celebration on "Oprah."

But I... >>MORE

Thu., Apr 24, 2008 - 2:01PM

Roughly 10 years ago I discovered what it means when a sheriff's car pulls directly behind your moving van and follows at close range for a mile or two. They're radioing your license tag in at headquarters to search for prior convictions of driving under the influence. Let me... >>MORE

Thu., Apr 17, 2008 - 9:55AM

I asked my twin sons what they wanted for their upcoming birthdays. Isaac didn't respond. He's functionally non-verbal and wasn't interested in using his communication device to answer. Noah thought for a moment and said, "I don't need a new atlas. How about shirts? Then... >>MORE

Thu., Apr 3, 2008 - 11:38AM

"Would it be a problem for both of you to leave home for three months?"

That was the question posed to us by Rochester,... >>MORE

Fri., Mar 14, 2008 - 12:55PM

Life can unfold so differently from the original plan.

All through high school and part of college I'd planned to study music... >>MORE

Fri., Mar 14, 2008 - 12:55PM

I vowed when my son was born that I'd always be honest with him.

I've always tried to prepare him for different things.... >>MORE

Fri., Feb 29, 2008 - 9:01AM

I've always been frugal and technologically challenged. It's painful to spend money on equipment I can barely operate. In my world, a "server" is the person who brings an enchilada to my table and needs a tip, and "BlackBerry" is the jam I eat on my toast each... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 26, 2008 - 11:14AM

I don't like to brag, but I've changed approximately 52,750 diapers in my lifetime. And the first 38,325 were cloth, not disposable. (This does not include the five or six that my husband took care of, but since he fixes the computers, maintains the vehicles and continues... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 26, 2008 - 11:14AM

It was a morning I dreaded for months.

Late last year my son's pediatrician recommended we visit an ear, nose and throat... >>MORE

Fri., Feb 1, 2008 - 10:17AM

Why has winter lasted six months this year? Being trapped inside with the kids while the snow is thigh high is not my idea of fun. ... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 24, 2008 - 12:53PM

I've always been a bit of a Nervous Nelly. It's why my feet stay firmly planted on the ground at amusement parks. You just never... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 17, 2008 - 9:52AM

I'm ready for Super Bowl Sunday. More ready than I've ever been before, and not because I'm a huge football fan or got a... >>MORE

Fri., Jan 11, 2008 - 8:54AM

We sent the fourth child off to college this past August. Only six left at home.

And while some might think "only six... >>MORE

Fri., Jan 4, 2008 - 8:03AM

On Christmas Eve, a new baby arrived at our house. He's a beautiful baby boy with golden hair and brown eyes.

Rudy, a scrappy... >>MORE

Fri., Dec 28, 2007 - 9:07AM

They say people can change. I did so, literally overnight. I was once a collected, stable-minded, laid back person. Then I became a... >>MORE

Wed., Dec 19, 2007 - 2:19PM

When my extended family gathers on Sunday to celebrate Christmas, we'll begin a new tradition.

Using an idea I swiped from... >>MORE

Fri., Dec 14, 2007 - 9:32AM

When my family and I moved six years ago, my son Daniel was 2 years old. I claimed the small extra bedroom next to his for my office. My... >>MORE

Fri., Dec 7, 2007 - 10:37AM

"Hey, where's that Christmas list you have going?" my husband says one recent morning.

I panic... >>MORE

Fri., Nov 30, 2007 - 10:07AM

My baby is a lover, not a biter.

He gives the best hugs, and will dole them out to just about anyone. Leaving daycare in the... >>MORE

Fri., Nov 23, 2007 - 8:49AM

The minivan was born when I was a kid. It was the hip solution to the dreaded station wagon "grocery getter" and gas-guzzling... >>MORE

Fri., Nov 16, 2007 - 9:03AM

I know he's out there. My little Rudy. I just haven't found him yet.

Rudy is the puppy we plan to get. We don't know... >>MORE

Thu., Nov 15, 2007 - 9:41AM

Although my son looks nothing like me, and is in fact, of a different race than my husband and I, I forget every single day that he did not grow in the area under my heart, but in it. I love that I forget. Since the day I laid eyes on his incredibly beautiful little 4-month-old face, I... >>MORE

Fri., Nov 2, 2007 - 8:48AM

Assigning more than two boys to one bedroom might sound like a recipe for disaster, but in our old farmhouse it has worked out fairly well. Certainly there were instances of, "Mommy, he got into my stuff  again!" But the situation proved valuable for bonding, conflict... >>MORE

Fri., Oct 26, 2007 - 10:06AM

Dear Diary,

I got braces on my teeth on Monday. I hope they don't look too dumb. The orthodontist says I have to wear them for... >>MORE

Tue., Oct 2, 2007 - 12:28PM

Does it count that you are an Empty Nester if the day before your youngest leaves for college you buy a new puppy?

It's a... >>MORE

Fri., Sep 28, 2007 - 10:31AM

Are people born good or bad?

It's something I've been thinking about since my cell phone was stolen last week and used by... >>MORE

Thu., Sep 13, 2007 - 4:22PM

I've never engaged in style wars with my children. As long as the two of them were presentable, clean and modestly attired, I... >>MORE

Wed., Aug 29, 2007 - 12:27PM

Can one be too organized? It's a question weighing on me since my brother recently diagnosed and labeled me a Type A... >>MORE

Wed., Aug 15, 2007 - 3:17PM

"Welcome home" banners and displays lined the highways and streets of eastern Iowa late last month as the 640 returning soldiers of the Iowa Army National Guard 1st Battalion, 133rd Infantry were feted at an overflow crowd of 8,000-plus at our local minor league baseball... >>MORE

Thu., Aug 9, 2007 - 12:28PM

A new school year is right around the corner.

Usually, I don't pay much attention to the start of a new school year. I have... >>MORE

Sun., Aug 5, 2007 - 4:47PM

"Why were all my stuffed animals in the garbage?" my son asked accusingly.

"Some of them were torn, and I... >>MORE

Thu., Jul 26, 2007 - 11:52AM

Time. It's the one commodity I wish I had more of.

I'm tired of not having enough time to split between my family and my... >>MORE

Thu., Jul 19, 2007 - 2:29PM

I had no idea I would strike such a nerve. My own, I mean.

The last time we met, I told you about my experience as the only woman... >>MORE

Fri., Jul 13, 2007 - 12:38PM

In my last column, I talked about a recent vacation with our young children. I was so relieved everything had gone right, I couldn't... >>MORE

Fri., Jul 6, 2007 - 10:59AM

"May I see your ID, please?"

The two colleagues I had accompanied to happy hour graciously pulled out their driver's... >>MORE

Mon., Jul 2, 2007 - 1:34PM

Wow! I write a column about the shootings at Virginia Tech and hold my breath, waiting to hear from either gun control people or mental... >>MORE

Tue., Jul 3, 2007 - 9:07AM

My husband and I are fairly new at this whole parenting thing with only four years under our belt. When it comes to planning a vacation... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 22, 2007 - 10:57AM

Every summer when school lets out the calls begin. Without a school cafeteria to serve him up quick, nutritious lunches, my 13-year-old... >>MORE

Mon., Jun 18, 2007 - 2:32PM

How busy is too busy?

I have two school-aged kids this summer, if you count the "going-into" grade. One will be a second... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 15, 2007 - 11:50AM

On the way to daycare recently my sons and I drove past the Planned Parenthood. We drive by the location every morning, but that day was... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 15, 2007 - 11:50AM

On a recent sunny day, my son and I were cruising along Highway 2, when he shouted something along the order of "what's... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 15, 2007 - 11:50AM

This is a reminder to all those parents of toddlers out there. Your toddler can get into mischief in an instant. Make sure you... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 15, 2007 - 11:50AM

My youngest was screaming at me in the car the other day, "'Dere, 'dere Mommy. Tiger," he... >>MORE

Wed., Jun 6, 2007 - 3:07PM

I cried because I had no shoes. Then I met a man who had no feet.

The unknown author of this wise proverb is speaking directly to me. And... >>MORE

Fri., Jun 1, 2007 - 1:28PM

Do you know if you're having a boy or a girl?

With each of my three pregnancies, this has been one of the first questions people ask,... >>MORE

Wed., May 23, 2007 - 11:55AM

I wrote a letter today unlike anything I had ever written before.

I was using a very specific template. The letter had to contain... >>MORE

Wed., May 23, 2007 - 11:55AM

So it took me $55 to fill my gas tank today. And I keep hearing on the radio people are upset, but not changing their driving habits. Experts in the field, whoever that may be, feel prices will continue to go up. Perhaps to $4 a gallon, as the summer travel season goes into full swing.... >>MORE

Thu., May 17, 2007 - 2:51PM

Spring is here, and it's that time of year when everything is new and fresh: green grass, budding flowers, rain instead of snow, the... >>MORE

Fri., May 11, 2007 - 11:13AM

Over the last three weeks, I've received press releases from companies all over the globe hoping to get a little free press for their "perfect" Mother's Day gifts.

As I sifted through the descriptions of trinkets, baubles, bouquets and gadgets, I wondered what moms really... >>MORE

Thu., May 3, 2007 - 5:54PM

My oldest son now has a license to drive --- a bicycle.

My husband and I gave him his first bicycle for his birthday last month. It has all the basic parts for a 4-year-old beginner: training wheels, pedal brakes and Spider-Man decals. For safety's sake, we also gave him a bike helmet,... >>MORE

Fri., Apr 27, 2007 - 2:01PM

So much to do, so many choices, so little time.

My firstborn will graduate from high school next month, and I've got to nail down... >>MORE

Fri., Apr 20, 2007 - 10:03AM

In the last few weeks, I've heard from a few parents who are struggling to keep their sanity and maintain order in their household. It seems the kids have taken the reins of control, and the parents are playing catch-up. One of the toughest areas to conquer, it seems, is bedtime with a... >>MORE

Wed., Apr 18, 2007 - 12:25PM

Two months until summer vacation.Time to figure out what to do with the kids while we work and the kids vacate for a few months.A friend gave me some motherly advice: This is going to be one of your hardest summers.Thanks, I needed to hear that.Last summer was hard enough -- the "I'm... >>MORE

Fri., Apr 13, 2007 - 9:45AM

Any public relations professional worth his salt ought to have a few continuing education credits in the art of apology under his belt. They'll be needed in ample amounts to advise the big-mouth blowhards who keep crawling out of the woodwork seeking the public's forgiveness for acting... >>MORE

Thu., Apr 12, 2007 - 11:04AM

I like to try new recipes. I am always on the look out for something nutritious (preferably in a sneaky way), flavorful enough for the... >>MORE

Tue., Apr 3, 2007 - 8:51AM

I am a big believer in the idea of lists.  Forgetfulness runs in my family so I have become quite proficient at creating lists.  As a result, I have so many lists that I need a list to... >>MORE

Sat., Mar 31, 2007 - 6:34AM

Baby tigers and silly chimps. What kid wouldn't love them?

A kid whose life and thumbs revolve around a video game... >>MORE

Mon., Mar 26, 2007 - 11:33PM

We never made a huge deal out of falls so our children wouldn't come running, sobbing with every small scratch and invisible... >>MORE

Fri., Mar 23, 2007 - 9:45PM

My youngest son is going through a daddy phase. If his daddy is in the room, he wants to be near him. As soon as his dad leaves the room, he starts to cry.

And, boy, does my 1-year-old know how to turn on the waterworks. His face gets all red, tears rain down his cheeks, his lips tremble,... >>MORE

Thu., Mar 15, 2007 - 4:04PM

Editor's note: Second of two parts on setting limits and saying "no"

"It was $6 for a tiny bowl of... >>MORE

Wed., Mar 14, 2007 - 9:01AM

It wasn't Barry Manilow.

Or John Denver.

At the risk of sounding totally nerdy, those were the "rock" concerts I went... >>MORE

Wed., Mar 14, 2007 - 9:01AM

It is chilly to say the least.

So why are our children ditching their coats? No, I am not talking about the teenagers who think they know... >>MORE

Thu., Mar 15, 2007 - 4:03PM

Editor's note: First of two parts on setting limits... >>MORE

Fri., Mar 2, 2007 - 1:31PM

In the midst of all this snow and other wintery weather, I have decided to take some time and "smell the roses." Too many... >>MORE

Fri., Mar 2, 2007 - 1:31PM

I love Calvin & Hobbes. Recently I ran across a cartoon where Calvin wakes up, climbs out his window and goes to a pay-phone down the street. "Hello Dad! It's now three in the morning. Do you know where I am?" A parent's worst fear.

I remember a shopping trip to Lincoln... >>MORE

Wed., Feb 28, 2007 - 2:15PM

Brrr! This morning while my daughter lies in a warm, snuggly bed, I'm thawing out my hands.

I've just come in from pruning my... >>MORE

Thu., Feb 22, 2007 - 11:28AM

"Mommy, I'm scared."

"Why are you scared?"

"I don't want them to take my bones."

This... >>MORE

Wed., Feb 21, 2007 - 7:24AM

If there is a patron saint for Moms who are packing for a long family vacation, perhaps I should be praying to her a little more... >>MORE

Thu., Feb 15, 2007 - 11:36AM

It was a passing fancy, but my reaction to it made all the difference.

In seventh grade my daughter went through an Avril Lavigne... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 13, 2007 - 10:39AM

I am always surprised when breastfeeding moms make the news.

I am forced to assume it is a very slow news day.

Back in... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 13, 2007 - 10:39AM

As the mother of a son, I do not have a personal stake in the current debate over the HPV vaccine.

But... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 13, 2007 - 10:39AM

When is it exactly that our children determine that vegetables are icky?

I know that there were... >>MORE

Thu., Feb 8, 2007 - 2:30PM

Last time, I wrote about a bad day my oldest son had at the sitter's house. I thought it only fair that I should counter that story with a good one.

My almost 4-year-old can be as much of a joy as an exasperation. He makes me smile and laugh when his blue eyes twinkle with mischief and... >>MORE

Tue., Feb 6, 2007 - 10:30AM

My son was around 4, and was "having a moment." He'd had numerous behavioral "moments" that day, and I had just placed him in his room for the umpteenth time.

Once again, he wandered out into the living room where I had sought sanctuary from his stubborn resistance.... >>MORE

Mon., Feb 5, 2007 - 3:45PM

We had an accident at our house this week.

My husband and I had just been talking about having the boys pick up some toys in the... >>MORE

Tue., Jan 30, 2007 - 12:01PM

I have told you the story of Sam the Gecko who passed away in December at our home. There was a burial under our deck, a large... >>MORE

Mon., Jan 29, 2007 - 2:22PM

Even though the snow has started to melt around Lincoln, I hear we may be visited by flurries again in the not so distant future.

I have been amazed at the news of not one, but two children being killed while sledding. In early January, 13-year-old Luke Saathoff of Sterling was run... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 25, 2007 - 12:01PM

My fellow Mommy Talk columnist, Meta Hemenway-Forbes, last week wrote on the difficulty of disciplining children effectively.

While I am closer to those sleepless nights and messy diapers to which she alluded and so hesitate to disregard them lightly, I am also in the initial battles of the... >>MORE

Mon., Jan 22, 2007 - 4:13PM

Do you remember the episode of Seinfeld when Jerry and Kramer were all excited about the prospect of Elaine getting into a 'cat fight' with a co-worker? Elaine dismissed the idea at the time, but researchers are finding that girls are getting into fights more than ever before.

This... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 18, 2007 - 10:13AM

Forget the diapers and the sleepless nights. That only lasts a couple of years, at most.

The hardest part of parenting is what follows --... >>MORE

Wed., Jan 17, 2007 - 11:43AM

I have always agreed you should never say something to your child you don't really mean.

My favorite example: a mom and... >>MORE

Wed., Jan 17, 2007 - 11:42AM

I'm a grown woman. I figure I've been in scores of new situations where the surroundings were novel and the people unfamiliar... >>MORE

Wed., Jan 17, 2007 - 11:42AM

I was wondering if anyone noticed when my son got so grown up.

He turned five last month. I made his Dad take him to his... >>MORE

Wed., Jan 17, 2007 - 11:41AM

It's official. On the day our younger daughter turned eleven months old, she gave up crawling for walking, ending the days of there... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 11, 2007 - 4:15PM

I was working hard for a great Madison present — reuse/refurbish/personalize my old ibook and turn it into a kids' educational... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 11, 2007 - 11:18AM

One year ago, I totally decluttered my house -- room by room.

So one year later, it was pretty shocking to see all the stuff that... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 11, 2007 - 11:18AM

Today my niece turns 7.

She's a first-grader in a teeny tiny town in Wisconsin, attending a very small rural school.

She's... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 11, 2007 - 11:18AM

Everyone seems to be talking about their New Year's Resolutions. I think of some every year, but by the end of the year, I usually... >>MORE

Thu., Jan 4, 2007 - 12:05PM

I was 25 when I first noticed them.

Standing in front of the mirror, grooming my early '90s 'do, I saw them. Right there. On top... >>MORE

Wed., Jan 3, 2007 - 11:47AM

These are five words I dread. And they seem to have become the new slogan around our house lately. Since the week before Christmas one or all of us has been coughing, sneezing, had a runny nose and/or sore throat, or just felt miserable. Just when I thought we were all on the mend, New... >>MORE

Fri., Dec 29, 2006 - 12:45PM

Britney Spears recently introduced her new, fit look after having her second child. Her spokesperson said it was the result of dieting and exercise and that she didn't use a trainer, diet pills or a nutritionist.

Instead, she ate six small meals a day, cut out fast food and most... >>MORE

Thu., Dec 28, 2006 - 2:05PM

I made two batches of cookies last night.

So far I've wrapped a handful of presents and have more to buy.

The house is... >>MORE

Thu., Dec 28, 2006 - 2:05PM

One of my favorite Christmas songs is Don Rivers' "The 12 Pains of Christmas."

My favorite line part is the guy... >>MORE

Thu., Dec 28, 2006 - 2:05PM

My husband and I don't go out often, but occasionally the need arises for a babysitter. None of our parents live in town, but the boys have gone to one of their homes to spend the night before. However, sometimes you just need a sitter so you can go to a party, or a dinner and a movie... >>MORE

Thu., Dec 21, 2006 - 12:05PM

"Rusty, would you like a bite?"

It's what I wanted to ask the preschooler who was intently watching my family eat.

My... >>MORE

Wed., Dec 20, 2006 - 10:05AM

My son is a kindergartener this year. When I found out that his school did not have all day kindergarten yet, I considered transfering him to a school that did, but changed my mind.

I am a supporter of all day kindergarten. With all the new No Child Left Behind ( NCLB ) requirements, there... >>MORE

Wed., Dec 20, 2006 - 10:05AM

I was driving to work today when the Alvin and The Chipmunks Christmas song came on the radio.

I always loved Alvin and the... >>MORE

Wed., Dec 20, 2006 - 10:05AM

Did you read the one about the chocolate chip cookie scented advertisement?

It seems a Got Milk campaign thought it would get people drinking the white stuff if they smelled chocolate chip cookies at bus shelters. And so, the advertiser put up scented cardboard strips for people to inhale... >>MORE

Fri., Dec 15, 2006 - 9:13AM

Patience is a talent, not just a virtue.

I may not be a very good singer, a great athlete or a creative artist, but I don't aspire to... >>MORE

Tue., Dec 12, 2006 - 9:48AM

Wisconsin averages about one teen suicide a week.

That's one suicide too many each week, no matter how the state compares with the rest of the country, which is not good. Wisconsin has the eighth-highest rate of youth suicide in the United States and fares poorly compared with... >>MORE


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